Is a hysterectomy a death sentence for your sex drive. If u have ur reproductive organs removed do women lose their desire for sex?
If u have had a hysterectomy how was ur sex drive afterward?

I am a bisexual male, and I am completely comfortable with being one and have no desire to change my gender. I already have relatively feminine facial features but I was wondering if there was a way to decrease hair growth or make my body structure more feminine in appearance? I have read that some males use hrt to have hair-free bodies but that whole process seems very extreme and intimidating. Any answers I could get regarding this matter would be greatly appreciated.

I am on Hormone Replacement Therapy and it helps hot flashes and other symptoms, but even the thought of sex is a turn off. My husband is wonderful, patient and understanding but starting to get frustrated. We use lubricant but I just cannot find the desire….it feels like I could go for a long long time and not miss sex at all. Before the surgery I loved everything about our relations. Does anyone have any suggestions of supplements or anything that will help bring back the desire?
Thanks.

Will the desire come back? I have not had any mood swings so will this also change? I am not taking any hormones. I seem not to have any kind of feelings. Is this also common?
They took overies also.

Ive had two children and desire no more. My periods are horrible, ive tried countless birthcontrol hormone methods and none have worked. Is it ethical to have the procedure done at such a young age?

Ok so 2 years ago I had a partial hysterectomy where they only kept my ovaries. Im 38 and have been having hot flashes a lot lately when Im usually freezing all the time. I have no desire to have sex at all but when I do have sex with my husband I still have orgasms. Is this a sign of going into menopause and is it normal to go in to menopause in your late 30′s?? Thank you.

I try explaining to my husband that I have no sex drive right now. I will be 50 soon and am on hormone replacement therapy because I was going into menopause. I am diabetic, as well. He is so unromantic, too. I have just lost my desire for him or for anyone, for that matter. I never think about sex. He acts like I should want him whenever he wants "it." I don’t think that way. To add to the problem…he does not have any romance about him. I have talked with him and explained myself, but it is like what I tell him falls on deaf ears. By the way, we have been married for 17 years and have seven children between our prior and present marriages. I want to desire him, but it just isn’t happening. How do the rest of you who are like me handle this. He just gets upset that I don’t have more interests in sex with him. Help!!!

I have suffered from painful dysmenorrhoa and endometriosis since the age of 13, but barely got diagnosed last year when i had a laparoscopy where they removed an ovarian cyst. I have been on the pill for almost 10 years and am afraid of the long term affects they may have on my body. My periods have not improved; i get sick all over again once i stop taking the pills and at one time developed cysts in my breast due to the type of pills taken. My husband and I have decided we do not want children; i have a great career and can finally afford college and get my degree in photography. Children are nice, but i have no desire to give birth; to be honest, to adopt an orphan or foster child thrills me more than anything and seems to be the right thing to do. But when i discuss having a partial hysterectomy, even with my condition, i am easily dismissed. What do you recommend I do to get what I have considered for years as a health option for myself?

Ok, my husband hit me with a bombshell tonight and I don’t know what will happen. He’s very effeminate and extremely cute for a boy. He’s always been that way even as a young child. I saw pictures of him and I wasn’t sure if I was looking at a boy or girl. When he was in high school he started taking estrogen that he got on his own ( I think his mom’s birth control pills) and it resulted in the cutest A-Cups that anyone could imagine. He’s still a normal male that can penetrate me and in fact I’m pregnant from his semen.

Anyway my friend from work is moving in with us and we will have a three way bisexual relationship. She wants him to continue on hormone therapy and she wants to continue to feminize him.

I am a little worried that I might lose my husband as a functional male. What will happen to him if he starts female hormone therapy.

Will his breast size expand?

Will his penis remain the same size or get smaller. Currently his penis measures 5-half inches fully erect which I understand is nothing to write home about.

If his penis gets smaller will it still be able to penetrate me and will he still produce sperm because I want more children eventually.

The most important question of all will he still love me. My friend and both my husband and I are bisexual and to be honest I think she wants my husband but not as a masculine man but as a effeminate totally feminized "boy". Since the three of us will be involved sexually with each other I think she is turned on by the possibility of "strapping him" playing the role of the man.

Will he still have the desire for vaginal sex

My boyfriend, whom I love very much is an alcoholic. I am very worried about his health. He has no desire to quit drinking beer. He recently quit liqour because it caused him such severe stomach pain the last time he consumed it that it scared him.
He was introduced to beer at the age of 7 years.
He’s been drinking regularly for 21 years, he is 38 years old.
He drinks daily, anywhere from 4 24 oz. beers to a 12 pack, sometimes more.
He gets severe shakes if he attempts not to drink during the day, and will purchase alcohol when the shakes start.
I know a little about alcoholism. I know it’s dangerous. I don’t drink myself.
I’ve been with my boyfriend four and one half years, he’s experienced severe night time sweating since I met him. It’s getting alot worse.
It’s hard to get him to go to a doctor for any sickness or injury, but not impossible. I worry about liver disease. On occassion his eyes are yellow, which he attributes to tiredness. Any help. Thank you for your time.
He’s at that point – night sweats, stomach pains, digestive problems and terrible snoring.
His reason for drinking:
It relieves the stress of a hard day’s work, and he likes the buzz.
Again, he has no desire to quit.
He’s mostly a beer drinker,he’s told me he used to drink alot of liqour. He only drank liqour occassionally since I’ve met him. The last time scared him.
I hope and pray he wants to give up beer before it’s too late for him.
He will not ackowledge that beer has anything to do with his eyes sometimes being yellow.l keep trying to get him to see a doctor for a check up. I hope the doctor finds no damage, but if he does I hope it will convince my love to get help. My father died 4 yr’s ago, he was an alcoholic. I would never want anyone to suffer as he did. He used the same excuses as my boyfriend.

Ok…question……..I am having lots of hormonal changes in my body this last year, and the past two months have been EXTREME to the point I feel like a totally different person.
I have always had an extremely low sex drive ever since I was 21. This last month, I have had the desire to have sexual intercourse several times daily. THAT never was before for me! My hubby is HAPPY….to say the least, but I was wondering if it is part of pre/perimenopause, OR if it could be something else. WHY now?? Why not long ago?? Any one have ideas? support? I love it, but just wonder what happened to my body to start the sexual desires!

i am a woman goin on 42 and recently i do not have the desire for sex, i think im starting my premenopause. i was just wondering if there is anything i can take to make me in the mood