I have been bleeding since Aug. 27, 2007, and also did this last year for the same amount of time. Was wondering what could be done about it? I am really getting tired and was wondering if there is something that could be done like a pill or hormones? I am 51 years old and I have no desire to have any children.

I am with a 46 year old man who might be going through andropause. He is wonderful sometimes and really mean and emotionally gone other times. His mood goes from one extreme to another without any warning and for no reason that I can find. He has no energy and very little desire for me. He does look at porn whenever he can, though. He also talks about wanting to see me and our not so attractive neighbor "together". He doesn’t want to participate, he just wants to see me and any woman. I think he’s not feeling any desire for me and wants to feel some kind of desire again. The thing is, I’m, so I’m told, very attractive and "good". I’m in great shape and not frumpy in any way. There are times when I can feel his love, but lately all I feel is that I’m the problem and he doesn’t like me. He says he’s depressed, but he’s on an anti-depressant drug, Celexa. He doesn’t do much but sit on his computer when he gets home from work. I’ve been patient and I’ve tried to be supportive. He just seems to be getting worse. Now he says he just wants to buy a camper and go live free. He wants to take me, too. He wants me to be a part of everything he does, even doctor visits and stuff like that. It’s like he needs me but he doesn’t want to need anyone. He has trouble sleeping some nights and doesn’t care about much of anything. He’s so cold and heartless to me to me one minute and then he’s sweet and kind. It’s hard to feel relaxed because I never know who he’s going to be.. I feel like he doesn’t want me anymore. He says I’m not part of his problem. It isn’t me that he doesn’t want. He just hates everything and feels like he doesn’t fit in this world. I need advice. I don’t want to leave, but it’s hard to stay.

Just about to turn 53 and been experiencing this funny feeling of "lack lustre".I feel very dull and have no desire to face my day to day activities with the usual alert and positive attitude I used to have untill a few years back(about 4 years now).I used to be the very active type rushing myself through anything there is to be done.Ready to jump to the rescue of others then ,but now barely able to tear myself from my bed and prepare lazily to go to work.Of course my results are terrible.I know something is seroiusly wrong with me but what I dont know.I run my own small biz and have staff to manage.
Any handy and practical advice ?

for about 2 years i have been in peri/pre menopause & my periods have been irractic.
last month i had 2 , this month none but iam having swelling in my fingers and weight is from 167 to 177 in the past 2 months! its crazy! my breasts are very tender now and i have weird lower & mid back pains along with some in my ribs & now collar bone!
lord iam feeling all kinds of crazy pains and cant afford a doctor.
but i have been told this is normal & it will go away one day on its own.
alot to do with hormones.
i also lack desire to go places and just love being at home..lol
please ladies tell me if u have exp this & whats normal.
is the back pains , swelling & weight gain all normal?
what about fibromyalgia? i need good advice.
thanks!!
maria claudia age 43 .

my mother passed away in july, my last period was in the first part of july and it was a half of a day one. im carrying to jobs paying bills, taking care of 3 kids who i completely love and worship the ground they walk on. i know im not pregnant lol because the last i heard i think you have to have sex right lol
i have no desire for sex, that interest is gone out the window. im 40 years old. i find that i worry about everything. my mother was my best friend in the world. and im trying to be strong for my children. so they will be strong. but im worried about my body. something is going on please only mature replys only!!!!

My mom has migranes and my dad had leukemia.
I suffer from extreme headaches, so bad that i vomit, and i can’t hear or concentrate on anything. My mom doesn’t get this. I get these everyday, i know its not the flu or mono because its happened since january. Also when i sit down and am reading something i get very dizzy and lightheaded. Everytime i stand up i black out and have to stand and hold on to something untill it stops. I have bruises that i don’t know where they are from, tiny redish purpleish spots on my shoulder, nightsweats and i feel very tired all the time. i used to constantly eat and no i have no desire to have nearly as much. I was very active and could be able to run up a set of stairs, now when i do i get even more tired and get a shortness of breath. My chest also hurts everyttime i breath.
every once in awhile my knees hurt tremedously.
what could this be?
sorry maybe i wanted people who acctually have leukemia or migranes to answer this question not then general public, and its pretty sad that you can’t even spell STUPID