My fiance and I are having a disagreement about this. He thinks it turns cold, but I know it turns hot. Actually, our shower doesn’t do anything when you flush, but usually they turn hot, correct?




I’m a 29 year old female that is on hormone replacement therapy. I’ve been to the hospital recently and he told me and my fiance that I am at a great risk of getting blood clots because of the HRT and because I smoke about 2 packs of cigs a day. He also told us what the symptoms to look out for like leg pains and chest pains. I have developed both but my question is this Where in your leg does a blood clot usually begin to form. Please help me.




Aaargh! I’m currently walking around with wet socks and my skin feels like it’s burning up. My fiance is laughing his butt off! I just found out I’m pregnant and yes we are very happy! But what’s the deal? Are these crazy hot periods a symptom and how long til they stop. My skin doesn’t feel hot to touch, says my partner but to me, omg, I’m going nuts! (i’m also quitting smoking I"ve quit today as I just found out yesterday, I did sneak one tonight to prevent killing somebody though!)

Night sweats making sheets dirty, is this normal?




My fiance sweats ALOT when he’s sleeping and it stains our sheets. Is this normal? He’s 30 years old and seems to be healthy. He does construction work and takes a shower everyday after work. He does have a history of melanoma. I am hoping that he’s ok, my side of the bed is nice and white!

Hormonal Imbalance…?




Ok. So my fiance has been constantly horny for about 2 months. He’s constantly got a hard on and even after getting off he’s automatically horny and ready to go again. It’s really annoying and quite frankly he’s miserable. He’s even had blue balls for days at a time. What in the world is going on? I’m worried that he might have a hormonal imbalance or something… guys do you have any insight on this? Oh, and we do have sex so it’s not like he isn’t getting any. And he’s really not into porn so he doesn’t watch a lot so it’s not like he’s addicted and just can’t get off. Please help! He’s driving me insane because he’s in a crappy mood and taking it out on me. And please no smart a$$ comments.
He’s tried getting off several times to no avail… at least by himself. I normally have to get involved and it’s getting to be a hassle. I love him to death but this is getting ridiculous and it’s putting a strain on our 3 year relationship.

I’m also available for IMing if you have some more advice.




Ok so my fiance and I have been trying for a baby but haven’t been able to to get pregnant. I went to the dr because I missed my period for 3 months and then started for 11 days and then stopped for 2 days and then started again for another 2 days. I went to the dr and he gave me a vaginal ultrasound and that’s when he told me that I don’t ovulate and that is why Im not able to have a baby, he then said I would have to get on medication to help me with that. I have taken home ovulation test and there are some that come out positive. So I am real confused right now about the whole ovulation thing. Also he ran some test on me because I have colostrum coming out of my breast and when i got the results back on the paper it says a person who is not pregnant is supposed to have a 2.0, a person who is pregnant is supposed to have 10.0 and premenopause is 2.5. Mine came out on the list at a 8.8. Is there anyone out there that has had the same thing happen to them or know whats going on??

Please no rude or sarcastic comments
Last time i took a pregnancy test was in July and it came out negative (thats around the time i went to the dr when he told me i wasnt ovulating) so i stopped taking pregnancy tests

How long after a Depo Provera shot can I conceive?




I have been on the Depo Provera shot for over a year now. I am due for my next shot March 9th but I am not going to get it. My fiance and I are concerned that the Depo shot will prevent me from being able to conceive once I am off of it. How long will it take for the shot to be out of my system so that I will be able to conceive? Also, is there anything that I can do that will increase my odds of becoming pregnant?




can a hormonal imbalance cover up a pregnancy?




Me and my fiance have had sex while she’s not having her period, she missed it one month and started spoting but she’s having symptoms of being pregnant is there a way her hormonal inbalence is hiding her being pregnant.
pregnacy test come back negative but she’s still spoting.




Gynecological exam before getting married?




My fiance and I are getting married in July. We are both virgins. Is it necessary (or a good idea) for her to get a gynecological exam before we get married? If it is then does she need to see a gynecologist or is a general practitioner ok?







I am 30 years old and on another posting I did someone said I could be peri-menopausal, I looked up symptoms and I have some symptoms, my mom was 34 when she started menopause, my fiance and I are planning on me getting a tubal reversal this year, if I am peri-menopausal will I still be able to get pregnant?