Monday, December 6th, 2010 at
6:06 am
I’m going to list my 27 year old wife’s symptoms, if you want to pick out the symptoms she has that’s fine but it might just be easier to tell me what the symptoms that you had instead… At first I thought it was depression but someone said it could be hormonal instead….
In regards to my wife though: she’s very fast to change moods (mood swings), she’s very irritable, she no longer cares about her body or her appearance, she thinks the world around her needs to change and she’s perfect, she seems to be always bleeding even when not on her period, she has PMS often, she’s always cold when everyone else is hot and the opposite, she has frequent headaches, she gets very low quality sleep so wakes up tired, she’s fatigued half way through the day and can’t do anything after 4 or 5pm, she’s argumentative and stubborn (never was an issue), and my personal favorite she has really low sex drive (libido) and we only "get it on" about once every 3 or 4 weeks but sometimes longer (sometimes as long as 3 months apart).
She’s been like this for so long that she feels like there’s nothing wrong with her and that I’m the one has the problem but she can’t explain the above symptoms… If she does have a hormonal imbalance, what should she do? Is it fixable? How long will it take to get better?
Now she has a very high stress life which wasn’t always this way but because she had to return to work after being a stay at home mom for 4 years it’s changed her life faster than she thought it would. She has to do the chores that I don’t do (and I do a lot of them so don’t troll me please), she has to periodically watch the kids and/or care for them (again I do a lot of the work too so don’t troll me please), she has a lot of online friends (about 20 or so) through Yahoo!Groups that she MUST keep up with on a daily basis who are still stay at home mom’s and she feels out of the loop on what’s going on since she’s working now and misses a lot of gossip, she wants to provide a "quality" childhood for the kids so she’s signing them up for extra programs outside of school, and of course there’s the stress of being a house owner with bills (which I could do but she’s afraid I’ll mess something up)…
Side notes: She’s a heavy caffeine drinker (I quit caffeine in February, well all forms but chocolate), she’s on birth control and has been since the beginning of last year, she too is the chocolate lover, and she doesn’t exercise but she’s down to 110 lbs.