I need some advise. Hubby and I are ttc since march.Problem is I have an irregular period every 4 months, that began sept 07.In between periods are normal. My md says Im having cysts. I tried temp charting, but I never had consistent temps to tell when I O. Can anyone suggest an alternative to help us concieve more efficiently.




Ok, so it’s been four months since I delivered my son vaginally. I had a small tear which didn’t need stitches, however my son was stuck in the birth canal for over an hour. After my 6 wk checkup (Doc didn’t actually look inside, just checked uterus), hubby and I tried to have sex. It felt like a knife cutting me! We waited a few more days and tried again but it was not happening. At 9 wks postpartum I went back to my doctor and after examining me he said that I hadn’t healed and that it was due to breastfeeding. He gave me estrogen cream to use for a month, well two weeks after using the cream my milk supply was almost gone!! I immediately stopped the cream. My husband and I have tried several times, of course with tons of lubrication. I even tried Replens for a week. I don’t have insurance now so I can’t see my doctor. I cant’ imagine that I haven’t healed by now! Also, my urethra has never closed and has remained red and painful, even when wiping.




How often should a women have a pap smear?

I’m just wondering so i know when to do my next one. I just had one in March all were Negitive and i’ve only been with 1 man (my hubby) before and after the last pap smear.




I have always had a problem with heavy periods. Infact, I was once put on birth controll so they wouldn’t be quite so heavy. I can’t do that now, though because hubby and I sort of TTC. I’m miserable, though. I know this is TMI but, for the first few days of my period it is VERY heavy. For example, I will wear a pad(Stayfree ultra thin overnight) and tampon(OB Heavy Days- a step above super plus) both for security but, I usually have to change the tampon every couple hours because of major leakage. I get nervous at night because I have had "accidents" before due to "leakage". Of course, I’ve learned to controll that now somewhat by, getting up every so often to change hygenic products. This sucks, though because it means waayyy less sleep. :( I just wish I could figure out a way to controll my heavy periods because I am so miserable and bloated feeling because of this. HELP!
I do not wish to go any kind of birth controll since hubby and are are sorta trying to have a baby.
Also, I am 26.




I was just wondering how far different people traveled to go to their fertility clinic. My hubby and I are going to be traveling 3 1/2 hours to see our RE. I was also wondering how they did all the testing and ultra sounds when you live so far away. if you any suggestions of things you have done or learned, please feel free to share!




I have insurance and everything, but I was just wondering what the monthly expense is for fertility pills. I haven’t been to the doctor yet, but my hubby and I have been ttc for 9 months now with no luck.







I have insurance and everything, but I was just wondering what the monthly expense is for fertility pills. I haven’t been to the doctor yet, but my hubby and I have been ttc for 9 months now with no luck.

Does anyone knw about Progesterone Cream ?




I have a low level of progesterone and have been TTC for almost two yrs. I recently found out about my low level. Everything else is fine, its just my progesterone that is preventing pregnancy. I’m 23 if that matters and I have a regular every 28 day cycle that only lasts for 4 days. I just want to know will progesterone cream help me in my journey of TTC with my hubby and have u or anyone u know had a successful pregnancy with low levels?… Thanks to ALL




I just found out I have a very large cyst on one of my ovaries and a few medium sized ones on my other one. I am going back to my gyn in 4 weeks to have it looked at it again and if its still there, to have it surgically removed.

Will having these removed increase my fertility?

My hubby and I have been ttc for 16 months and I have pcos.




My hubby just told me he is going thru male menopause and losing his sex drive….is this a real thing or an excuse? I am fit and have tried to do things to spice it up. No response from him in that way. He has also told me its due 2 a hurt back and other minor health things that would not affect sex….ie bloos preasure.

Please let me know what u think about this




I know I can’t be the only one! My once "happy place" is not so happy anymore! It’s very, very dry. It hurts even just to wipe after I pee. Everykind of soap hurts to wash with. So needless to say, my hubby has not gotten any nookie! I hate it!! I’m about 3 months postpardum, and I have not had a period yet. I heard once I get a period, my body will re-estrogenize. But in the meantime, this sucks! Can anyone relate?

Marriage and premenopause?




I started premenopause pills to help me get ready 4this change of life I agreed to hubby for him to find sex temporary somewhere else since Iwas emotional & sexually turn off due to this horrible pills..well he quickly went for it and but 1st said No, but I figure it something was not right and q? He deniade it ..but broke down and admit it..but said she is a friend and she will get hurt and she is now out of town, refuses to be cruel to her since he cares and has only friendly feelings for this quote sweet friend and will not break it off until she comes back., because it will break her heart..what about me?? My broken heart..12yrs marriage and 3children..now he completely says I push him n pressure him to it..and it is all myfault and that I am mentally unstable for charging my mind and want him to break off with married sweet woman…that I need psycho help for being wishy washy..but he repeating how much he loves me but Ineed to understand him and have a heart..help, iam really crazy..do you see what is wrong here???..now I want a divorced and I dont trust him, Help..should Iforgive him, ps hehas been with her for 2weeks admitted having literary every day sex with her ever everyyday in her office..iam sick..since I questioned why so many personal text msges and he had set password protection his phone cell..overnight..and refuses to let me see messages….what to do??




What the heck is wrong with me? My temperature is reading 95.8, my face is hot to the touch (according to hubby), I feel hot. My head has been hurting all day. I have had terrible anxiety for about the past 10 days and have been unable to sleep. I was recently laid off and lost my insurance. I was put on my husbands, but cannot visit a doctor till next week, when my insurance kicks in. Does anyone have any thoughts or ideas?

Hormonal Imbalance at age 20…. have only 1 ovary…?




At 17 I had 1 of my ovaries removed. After a little imbalance everything was ok. I became pregnant at 19, had my son before my 20th birthday. I had 1 period while I was pregnant… about 2 weeks along…. then some spotting at 6 weeks. After that nothing. But I had a + home test before the 6 week marker…

After that my periods became regular again… usually they were late by about 2 days. I had the mirena put in after my son was born, but later had it removed during a surgery. It has been about 4 months since my surgery, and all periods have been normal.

My hubby and I had unprotected sex before my last period, BUT my period ended up coming 1 week early. It was different. So I assumed I could be pregnant. Then I developed these white bumps on my areolas. One of them is REALLY sore. The others not really. I took a home test… (-).

Someone told me it could be a hormonal imbalance… is this true? Could I be in early menopause at age 20??
I’ve also been tired, nauseated, irritable……

phantom period at 20?




I am 20 and me and my hubby have unprotected sex about every 3-4 days. my last period was May 20th. before that i missed 3 periods and my doctor had to give me meds to jump start one because my boobs hurt so bad. about a week and half-2 weeks after my period ended i had some spotting. so now i will have missed 2 periods this thursday. im having mild cramps in my lower pelvic area, my boobs hurt, and in the last week or so ive gotten hungrier and im craving so many things all the time. (mostly brownies or fruit) my cervical mucus is thick white and sticky. i have also been getting hot flashes. I want to know if anyone else has had this problme. could i be pregnant, have PCOD, or early perimenopause. also how likey am i ovulating if im skipping so much?